If you were secretly crushing over that cute boy in college, or your friends distant friend before covid19 slam dunked your dreams of being together forever in your head, it’s not too late. You can still make the first move and we’re going to tell you why its super awesome and okay for a girl to make the first move.

Ps. Just so you know, that you’re love life should not take a back seat due to covid19.

BOYS JUST CANNOT TAKE HINTS

For some odd reason, boys can behave like a complicated lot when it comes to picking up on hints, because they simply cannot. The truth is that, a lot of guys cannot read hints and they never know what’s going on. So you both end up looking like fools (Haha!) And I’m sure you don’t want to be that girl who kept on waiting for him to figure it out, which is why YOU MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!

IT SHOWS THAT YOU KNOW WHAT & WHO YOU WANT

We’re in a digital age and social media has made it super easy to just ask anyone out. So, if you make the first move, don’t over analyze if you’ve decided to express your feelings for him. It’ll show that you’re a smart and confident woman who is not afraid to run away from what she wants, and that is an empowering quality. So, you go girlfriend!

BOYS CAN BE SHY TOO

As much as I hate to say it out loud, I’ve had my experience with this one guy who was super shy to ask me out, and I kept giving myself anxiety over that notion without even realizing that this could be an actual case of a boy being too shy!

The truth is, shyness is a big deal for a boy and as troubling as it might be for him (even though he also likes you), he just might not tell you. So, don’t beat around the bush and give yourself a hemorrhage, ask him and find out the truth. You’ll be relieved no matter what his response is.

BECAUSE YOU ARE WONDER WOMAN

When you take the lead, you show the man that you’re in charge, that you aren’t afraid to demo that you are a strong and independent woman. Hell, you’re Wonder Woman.

YOU CAN BRAG TO EVERYONE

This one’s my favourite because when I asked out the guy I liked, I felt so rare because my besties wanted to know how I did it. I mean, it’s like all of a sudden your gang wants to become you, strong, confident and beautiful for going for what you want. And how often do you get to tell your pals that?

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Written by Faryal Syed
Asst Editor. Blogger. Enthusiast.