Men are linear thinkers whereas woman are emotionally driven and lets face it, the relationship world has become pretty savage with so many rules to dating now with non-committal arrangements, it’s like you don’t even know where yous stand. Therefore there isn’t much room left for meaningful communication also. It’s complicated for both the guy and the girl, where girls get caught up in emotions, guys have code talks regarding what they say and mean. So we got into the head of some of the boys and asked them 5 things guys say VS what they mean when in a relationship.
5 THINGS GUYS SAY VS WHAT THEY MEAN
DON’T PAY THE BILL
Nowadays, dating has taken a whole meaning, even though typically a girl would expect to go through the traditional dating course, however with all the aurat marches and buzz words thrown in the air, even boys have reformed the dating scene. For eg. if you’re on a date (minus the time period you’ve been together), if a guy says don’t pay the bill, well sister, he’s expecting you to pay it. While the courteous ones will not want you to pay, but sometimes (especially now) you gotta pay the bill!
IT’S NOT YOU, IT’S ME
As much as we all hate this statement, it can be very aggravating also. So when a guy says this no matter the situation is, sister, he means it. Guys are often straight up with what they’re feeling and it’s likely he isn’t playing anything tricks with you except the fact he is scared to simply admit what he’s feeling. So when you hear that, you gotta let him loose!
YOU LOOK BETTER WITHOUT MAKEUP
Not that he thinks you don’t look good with makeup on, but most guys don’t like girls wearing a lot of makeup and we know how desi girls can go cray cray over the full look, which can be a turn off for a lot of guys. So when he says you look better without makeup, you do look good without makeup to him.
WHEN HE RESPONDS IN EMOJIS
Okay, I’m rolling my sleeves up because this one can mean A LOT of things and it all depends on how or what kind of relationship you have with them to figure out what it could possibly mean.
- he can’t think of a reply
- he’s bored
- he doesn’t know what to say
- he’s an introvert
- he’s just goofing around
- he’s avoiding you or trying to wrap up the conversation
- he has no words to respond with but doesn’t want to be rude and not respond at all so an emoji will do
I NEVER WANTED THINGS TO END THIS WAY
What he actually means is that now you all have broken up, he tried fixing it but since there wasn’t a patch up so it’s all on you now. He made it work but you didn’t put your end of the effort up so you both ended up going your separate ways.