fbpx
  • Home
    • Giveaways
    • Press
  • STYLE
    • Siddy Styles
    • Trends
    • Style Star
    • Fashion Features
    • The Edit
  • BEAUTY
    • Beauty Minute
    • Wellness
    • Hair
    • Makeup
    • Skin
  • LIFESTYLE
    • Interior Design
    • Wanderlust
    • Food Safari
    • Entertainment
    • Events
    • Five Favourites
  • CULTURE
    • Cinema
    • Design
    • Art & Artists
    • Playlist
  • STORIES
    • Musings
    • Heart To Heart
    • Careers
    • Bucket List
  • SIDDY TV
    • Youtube Channel
No Result
View All Result
Fashion & Lifestyle Blog - Pakistani Fashion Blog | SiddySays
  • Home
    • Giveaways
    • Press
  • STYLE
    • Siddy Styles
    • Trends
    • Style Star
    • Fashion Features
    • The Edit
  • BEAUTY
    • Beauty Minute
    • Wellness
    • Hair
    • Makeup
    • Skin
  • LIFESTYLE
    • Interior Design
    • Wanderlust
    • Food Safari
    • Entertainment
    • Events
    • Five Favourites
  • CULTURE
    • Cinema
    • Design
    • Art & Artists
    • Playlist
  • STORIES
    • Musings
    • Heart To Heart
    • Careers
    • Bucket List
  • SIDDY TV
    • Youtube Channel
No Result
View All Result
Fashion & Lifestyle Blog - Pakistani Fashion Blog | SiddySays
No Result
View All Result

NARCISSIST HUSBAND: 10 HEART BREAKING REALITIES

October 5, 2020

If your partner is more interested in HIS feelings, HIS work, HIS pleasures, HIS life instead of listening to you or take interest in your life,  then you’re married to a narcissist husband. This unhealthy disregard of your feelings, unable to take criticism for their actions, cooking up half lies and put themselves on a high pedestal are some of the traits of a narcissist.

But, hey, how do I know that I’m married to a narcissist husband? Aren’t these generalized traits to all of us humans?

Well, honestly, the challenges that one faces if they’re in a relationship with a narcissist are fairly unique. They might say they love you, but at the end of they, they love themselves more. In fact, they love the idealized version of themselves in front of others so that they don’t come off as wounded and disrupted in their lives and naturally they don’t admit it. From aggression to manipulation, gas-lighting and isolation are some of their common behavioral patterns that we’ve managed to learn and pick up from social media.

I’m not a therapist, but I’ve seen a friend dealing with a narcissist husband and it’s a life long dead end relationship. While we may not realise the triggers and warnings, but being married to a narcissist can be very heart-breaking.

narcissist husband. sad truth

EVERYDAY IS A STRUGGLE

Because of their chronic mood swings and reactions everyday may become like a struggle. Even small talk doesn’t seem normal.

THEY MAKE YOU FEEL TRAPPED

You feel like you’re stuck on a road that leads towards a dead end and everything that they do just shocks you because you’re never on the same tangent on anything.

YOU QUESTION YOUR RELATIONSHIP EVERY DAY

You ask yourself why you’re with them. While for some it’s love, they have kids or just emotional human addiction, and for others its other harsh truths of life that you can’t evade from, but you have this question on your mind everyday.

YOU REGRET BEING WITH THEM

Being with a narcissist husband is like a long life with regrets and the biggest regret is simply being with them.

THEY MAKE YOU FEEL -VE

Because of their self absorbed personality, they emanate negative vibes. They are only positive for their needs and whatever fulfills their ego.

THEY EFFECT THE QUALITY OF YOUR LIFE

Anything you do, feel or hope for, doesn’t sit well with a narcissist. They will question, mock or hold you for it simply because it didn’t involve them.

YOU FEEL LONELY AROUND THEM

Feeling alone and worse, lonely when you’re in a relationship with someone can be devastating. But that’s how he will make you feel.

YOU FORGET EVER BEING “IN LOVE”

The relationship and anxieties can be so exhausting, you forget ever being in love. Love, who dat?

THEY MAKE YOU BITTER

Bitterness, resentment, anger, disappointment, sadness – you feel everything if you’re married to a narcissist husband.

NOTHING WILL EVER BE NORMAL

Unfortunately narcissism is chronic and there is no cure or change, unless someone’s willing to work it out, which people rarely do. Therapy is a big no-no for narcissistic people. So whatever you decide for yourself will sketch the course of your life.

If you want to read more on relationships, learn about the 6 common compromises all women do.

Share121Tweet76Share30
Faryal Syed

Faryal Syed

Related Posts

HOW TO STRENGTHEN YOUR FAITH SPIRITUALLY IN RAMADAN
LIFESTYLE

HOW TO STRENGTHEN YOUR FAITH SPIRITUALLY IN RAMADAN

April 18, 2022

Apart from fasting and praying to make the most of Ramadan, there are others areas of focus also. From your improving your personality to your relationships and even strengthening your faith, these last couple of years and the tough...

10 WAYS TO IMPROVE YOUR PERSONALITY THIS RAMADAN
LIFESTYLE

10 WAYS TO IMPROVE YOUR PERSONALITY THIS RAMADAN

April 15, 2022

Islam the true religion and complete way of life also discuss and debate upon the concepts of Personality and Personality development as is evident from many verses of the Holy Quran. Verily you are All-Mighty, the All Wise (Al...

5 WAYS TO PARENT KIDS DURING RAMADAN
LIFESTYLE

5 WAYS TO PARENT KIDS DURING RAMADAN

April 7, 2022

Frankly, being a mother is the toughest part during Ramadan when you have to cook, clean and feed the kids while you fast, pray and connect. And if you're a working from home and doing all of the above...

6 REASONS WHY THE L’OREAL PARIS ELVIVE EXTRAORDINARY OIL SERUM IS THE BEST
LIFESTYLE

6 REASONS WHY THE L’OREAL PARIS ELVIVE EXTRAORDINARY OIL SERUM IS THE BEST

April 8, 2022

Hair woes manage to women sleepless nights  because our hair have a unique way of telling us that something's wrong! Whether you've been spending too much time with your flat iron or you're shampooing more than usual whilst dealing...

Comments 5

  1. Sumbal says:
    2 years ago

    How to convince one’s for the thraphy?
    How can she handle this kinda person?

    Reply
    • Sumbal says:
      2 years ago

      After reading this artical I didn’t know I am bearing this since 8 years… As far as point 7 8 is concerned, not true in my case but the rest are 100 %correct.
      But the question still there how to deal with this?
      Is Sepereration the only solution for every mentle problem b/w husband and wife. As you wrote its chronic and has no cure and change?????!!!!!!!!!!!

      Reply
      • Faryal Syed says:
        2 years ago

        Hi Sumbal. I feel for you however I’m not a therapist if you’re looking for clinical help, but on a human level I feel there are always ways to deal with situations and people. Ways like open communication, understanding the other person, setting boundaries for yourself as to what is acceptable or not, and not giving into their attention seeking behaviour and staying positive. You’ve been with your partner for almost a decade now which means that you are in it for the long haul, so you’ve accepted him the way he is. Now you have to make this time easier for yourself as well (besides helping him grow out of his narcissistic patterns).

        And one more thing that I do always stress on is that, don’t ever blame yourself for someone else’s doing. You’re not responsible for how others choose to behave, so don’t live on any unnecessary guilt and depression. And talk to someone, like therapy. It will help in so many ways provided you are open to it.

        Reply
  2. Syra Khan says:
    2 years ago

    No solution works out with a narcissist. I had to take a decision to get divorced because narcissists never decide to leave you. For them you are a package deal who can daily listen to their rants and abuse. They need someone whom they can let down and mock in order to feel bigger and better. They have created a false self image which is very mighty and they believe that is real and to keep that image intact, they keep on degrading you.
    But believe me when I say there is no cure because I consulted a psychologist and he recommended immediate divorce if I want my sanity intact.

    Reply
    • Faryal Syed says:
      2 years ago

      Hi Syra. Thank you for sharing your personal experience and I’m sorry for the situation you’ve been through. Such is life, some people decide to stay for various reasons whilst some like you are bold enough to save themselves. I hope you’re in a good place now!

      Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Popular

  • pakistani designers

    TOP 5 PAKISTANI DESIGNERS FOR BRIDES ON A BUDGET

    302 shares
    Share 120 Tweet 75
  • 3 HIGHLY-ANTICIPATED UPCOMING DRAMAS IN RAMADAN 2022

    301 shares
    Share 120 Tweet 75
  • MERUB ALI BIOGRAPHY- AGE, FAMILY, AND CAREER INFO

    301 shares
    Share 120 Tweet 75
  • Biography Of Danyal Zafar – Age, Family, And Career Info

    301 shares
    Share 120 Tweet 75
  • 8 Famous Western Clothing Brands in Pakistan

    300 shares
    Share 120 Tweet 75

Instagram

  • What episode of Suno Chanda was this? 😍

#SunoChanda #IqraAziz #FarhanSaeed
  • With the release of #TheArchies the internet is breaking with memes.

Via @philmyyy
  • 💚💚💚

#SiddySays
  • Bags from @ideasbugulahmed are up for grabs at UP TO 70% OFF.  Fill in your closet with some chic pieces now! 

Available in-stores and online at www.gulahmedshop.com 

#TheGreatSummerSale  #TheGreatAreNeverLate  @ideasbygulahmedofficial
  • A sad day in the world of cricket! 

Former all rounder #AndrewSymonds passed away in a car crash. 

The guy who could bowl slow pace and spin in the same over and was equally good at both 🏏  a fantastic fielder and batsman.

#RestInPeace #SiddySays #AussieLegend
  • Steal Deal: Get summer-worthy lawn suits for as PKR 2,991 from #TheGreatSummerSale.  

Now LIVE at your nearest Ideas store  and online at www.gulahmedshop.com

#TheGreatSummerSale  #TheGreatAreNeverLate  @ideasbygulahmedofficial
  • The iconic Bushra Ansari, spotted in a gorgeous embellished ivory outfit Amaryllis by @waniyabyma ✨

@ansari.bushra ❤️🧡🤍

Hair & Makeup: @nabila_salon
  • Swarovski is infinite transformation.

#Swarovski
#RevealYourFacets
#IgniteYourDreams​
#pkswarovski
  • #TheObjectOfMyAffection 1998 🍿 

#SiddySays #PaulRudd #JeniferAniston

© Copyright 2021 - All Rights Reserved.

No Result
View All Result
  • Home
    • Giveaways
    • Press
  • STYLE
    • Siddy Styles
    • Trends
    • Style Star
    • Fashion Features
    • The Edit
  • BEAUTY
    • Beauty Minute
    • Wellness
    • Hair
    • Makeup
    • Skin
  • LIFESTYLE
    • Interior Design
    • Wanderlust
    • Food Safari
    • Entertainment
    • Events
    • Five Favourites
  • CULTURE
    • Cinema
    • Design
    • Art & Artists
    • Playlist
  • STORIES
    • Musings
    • Heart To Heart
    • Careers
    • Bucket List
  • SIDDY TV
    • Youtube Channel